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Article #125: The History of Valentine's Day

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We all know what Valentine's Day means connection to romance. The pope
today-it's a time to send and receive described St. Valentine as among saints
flowers, chocolates, and other romantic whose "names are reverenced among men,
gifts; a time to show our appreciation but whose deeds are known only to God."
for our significant other; generally, a His birthplace and date of birth were
time to honor the romance in our lives. unknown.
But most of us don't realize that The first known association of
Valentine's Day has a long history-and Valentine's Day with love came from
much of it had little to do with romantic Geoffrey Chaucer. In his poem,
love. "Parlement of Foules," written in 1382,
Valentine's Day is shrouded in legend, Valentine's Day was said to be the day
but not much is known about the actual when all the birds chose their mates for
history of the day. The earliest the year. The poem was written to honor
associations with Valentine's Day date the engagement of England's King, Richard
from the time of the Roman Empire, when II, to Anne of Bohemia. The poem alludes
fertility rituals typically took place in to this as an old and venerable
the month of February. In calendars from tradition; however, there are no records
the time of the ancient Athenians, the of Valentine's Day as a romantic holiday
time between the middle of January and before this time. It's likely that
the middle of February was called Chaucer was the father of our modern-day
"Garmelion," and was associated with the holiday.
marriage between Zeus and Hera. Since Valentine's Day took off soon after
Zeus was hardly a model husband, this is that-it fit in perfectly with the French
not a blindingly romantic association. nobility's ongoing infatuation with
During the Roman fertility ritual of courtly love. While the term "courtly
Lupercalia, contemporary accounts tell of love" wasn't coined until the late
young noblemen running through the 1800's, the principles of it can be found
streets of Rome stark naked, striking in literature dating as far back as the
anyone they met with leather thongs. 12th century. In this idealized vision
Women would intentionally get in their of romance, a knight or nobleman would
way, believing that the strike fostered fall in love with a beautiful
pregnancy and easy delivery. woman-always a woman of a higher class,
Interesting…but not very romantic. and usually somebody else's wife. His
St. Valentine himself is another mystery. love would be unattainable, but he would
There are several legends surrounding still work to make himself worthy of her
the "St. Valentine" figure. The earliest by undertaking dangerous quests in her
known legends say that St. Valentine was name and performing any harrowing task
arrested for being Christian, and she might ask for. Courtly love is found
questioned in person by Emperor Claudius everywhere in literature from the legends
of Rome. Legend has it that the Emperor of King Arthur to the poetry of Plutarch
liked Valentine, and tried to get him to and Shakespeare.
convert to paganism so that his life During the 1400's, a "High Court of Love"
might be saved. Of course, Valentine was founded in Paris. It was an attempt
refused-and tried to convert the Emperor to apply the language of law at the time
to Christianity instead. He was executed to romantic conflicts including
for his troubles. betrayals, violence against women, and
This legend has no association to contracts of love. The court was
romance, and throughout the years, established on Valentine's Day, and its
writers have tried to make the legend judges were chosen based on the eloquence
more closely associated with love. In of their poetry.
one, Valentine is a Christian priest The earliest known valentine was sent
living during the time of Emperor from the Duke of Orleans to his wife.
Claudius. According to legend, Claudius The Duke was being held in the Tower of
was trying to recruit men for the Roman London after the English army captured
Army-and failing. The men were refusing him at the Battle of Agincourt. The
to leave their wives. Claudius became valentine was a rondeau, addressed to the
angry enough to forbid any new marriages Duke's "Valentined wife."
throughout the Roman Empire. Valentine The tradition of exchanging love notes
refused to honor the Emperor's decree, and cards on Valentine's Day continued
secretly marrying many couples before he for several centuries, and was eventually
was found out, thrown in jail, and exported to the New World. Around 1847,
eventually killed. Another legend claims Esther Howland, the daughter of a
that he cured his jailor's daughter of stationery-store owner, began
blindness before he died. mass-producing Valentine's Day cards.
Actually, there are several holy men The cards were made of embossed paper and
named Valentine who could be the saint in lace, and Esther claimed to have been
question. One of them was indeed a Roman inspired by a Valentine given to her by a
priest; another was a bishop, and a third sweetheart in England.
was a martyr believed to be from the Today, Valentine's Day is celebrated by
Roman province of Africa. St. everyone from children to adults. Next
Valentine's Day was not declared a time you sign your name to a Valentine's
holiday until 496, when Pope Gelasius I Day card or pick up a Valentine gift for
gave it a date of February 14th. Even your loved one, remember the mysterious
then, it was celebrated as a normal feast origins of the holiday-it's sure to make
day to honor the saint, with no your experience of it richer.






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